One month down...

Well, as this is the anniversary of my resolutions, I think it only fitting that I look back and see what I have learned along the way... what I have done well, and what I can improve upon.

I have learned the value of positive influence. Amber from "Unstuffed" jumped in at a time when I felt I might jump off the bandwagon, and reminded me that each one of us that is trying to make a difference is a member of large community of like-minded people, and that together we can accomplish great things and learn from each other. Thanks, Amber.

I have learned that clothes hung outside smell so good, and that the extra work it takes to get my clothes from the machine to the line burns calories so...bonus!! I have also learned that cold water wash gets clothes just as clean as warm water. I am now washing ONLY in cold water.

I have learned that if you are going to practice mindful living, you have to allow a little more time to do so. I now plan my shopping day...(now once a week.) I am looking for and purchasing more organic products to support those companies that produce them. In time, I hope that demand lowers the prices of these goods, but for now I know that I am purchasing a higher quality product... and one which is produced in a manner which is kinder to our earth home.

I have learned how to grab the first jolt of water from the shower to use to water my plants. I continue to flush less often when we do not expect company. I am using less TP.

I have GREATLY reduced my consumption of meat, and am ready to take the step and eat vegetarian meals only. I feel lighter.

I am learning that there IS a story behind "stuff"...its production, its consumption and its disposal.

A long time ago I learned that people are more important than things. Did I learn this because I was surrounded by a huge clan of loving relatives who in my early years had little. but cared for and nurtured their own? I think that is so. As I have grown, and witnessed more affluence, I have also witnessed families battle and become divided over material possessions.

A friend once quoted, now 36 years ago, a line I have never forgotten. "I claim no possessions so none can claim me." In the months to come, I hope to gain a deeper understanding of that quote. I am hoping to reach a point in my life where I can sincerely practice its sentiments.

Workplace waste

I work in a Home For the Aged. Lately I have been noticing one area of waste that I find really disturbing. We have 150 residents in our home. Med passes are done four times a day. At each pass each resident receives a sealed envelope of medications which are checked, opened and poured into a plastic med cup. Every day 600 cups go to the landfill. Multiply that number by 365 days. Atrocious!

When I started nursing over 35 years ago, we used glass med cups that were washed and reused. I often wonder what happened to that practice, and to the cups themselves. I really can't see that the old practice of washing and reusing was harmful to the resident's health.

We do have a committee at work which now addresses the issues around recycling and I intend to bring this small but important issue to their attention.

I will write about this at a later time.

What a great day!

In an effort to keep my goal of making family a priority, my dad and I have been doing our best to spend a day together every week. Dad is 88 and he is such a great guy. He is always interested. He never bores of tales told twice. He remembers and confirms those memories I have of growing up. He fills in the blanks. We usually drive to Orillia's Mariposa Market and enjoy what dad describes as "the-very-best-chocolate-donut-in-the-whole-world"...and a cup of their fair trade coffee. I am never disappointed in a day spent with my dad.

His mother, my nana, was also a great influence in my life. Nana taught me to never waste, and to make-do and be happy with all that we have. Nana produced no garbage...no waste. She could not afford to. She lived through a depression and growing up in a large family taught her many survival skills

I can remember grandpa wore flannel shirts most of the time. When they became worn at the elbow, they were cut down to become a short-sleeved shirt, and when they had become threadbare, they were put in the rag bag... but not before every pocket was cut off to be used as a patch, and every button was cut off and put in her button jar. Aprons covered and protected every one of the few dresses she owned. What we ate came from her kitchen. She made the best cookies and currant squares. There was no wasteful packaging, and certainly never a scrap made its way to the garbage when my brother and I were around.

At night, when we visited, we shared a pot of tea, and what I remember as a HUGE stack of toast and peanut butter. We played "snap" with her and grandpa until we could barely keep our eyes open. What I remember most about those times was that we were always welcome, and that we were loved unconditionally. We were greeted as a special guests and made to feel valued. This is the legacy I want to leave my grandchildren.... unconditional love, and a feeling of being valued. What greater gift is there?

This is a lot harder than I thought!

I really have to salute those who have managed to avoid buying new for a whole year. My goal was to buy less, and that I am accomplishing, but to buy nothing new? I am not certain that I can do that. It isn't that I mind giving up "new" for myself, but it is difficult to avoid buying new for those in my family who are not of the same mindset. I have a grandbaby arriving next month, and as he is my DIL's first, (and perhaps last) she does not want hand-me-downs. I can't say I blame her on some level. It is only recently that I have realized the need to consume less, so for now, I will refrain from bringing new into this house for myself or my husband who is now starting to share my enthusiasm for this project. We watched "The Story of Stuff" together this week and I am ashamed of what I saw and my contribution to this problem. Eventually my children will realize the necessity to consume less, and hopefully before this is thrust upon them through a catastrophe of some sort.

Our snow has finally disappeared and I am not-so-patiently awaiting the day when I can plant my gardens. I have started strawberry plants indoors, and they are doing well! Tomorrow I am going to see if my grapevines and blueberries made it through the winter. Traps will be hung from our apple trees soon, as the apple maggot fly will soon be making an appearance. In cleaning my garage, I have found all sorts of canning jars that I will fill with local produce this fall.

My bike has been readied for the spring. I hope to ride it to work, weather permitting, and leave my car in the driveway as often as I can this summer. This old gal just may set an example for her children yet!

Just ramblings

Today I have little to contribute. I have worked for the past 5 days and I find myself bone tired...bankrupt of creative ideas or posts. HOWEVER, at times like this I lean a little on others for inspiration, and in that, have sat at this computer for the past hour surfing other blogger's sites. When I feel particularly saddened by what I perceive as a lack of effort on my friends and family's part to change the way they do things... I have to remember that there are many many people out there that are doing their part to lessen their carbon footprint. Change takes time, patience and knowledge.

I do have one thing to share, however. I have two large apple trees in my backyard. I have not been able to eat the apples off them as they are pock marked and misshapen. I have finally found out what has caused this and it is the Apple Fly Maggot. The Apple fly lays its eggs in the apple and in turn, the larva tunnels through the apple leaving brown streaks. If I owned an orchard it would be quarantined because of this problem.

I contacted the Annapolis Royal gardens in Nova Scotia where I had seen a red trap hanging from the apple tree there and asked for information. I was eventually able to order pesticide free traps from a company in the States. I hope to post a picture on this site of the trap later this week... AND...I have contacted my local garden centre to ask if they would be interested in seeing this trap. They are!!!!

So... slowly, ever so slowly, like minded people become the instruments of change.

Now for more perusing....

What was your "ah-ha" moment?

In 2004 I participated in the very last Paddle to a Cure, a kayaking expedition that ran for 5 years and raised close to one million dollars for Breast Cancer Research. I had lost my dearest friend to Breast Cancer prior to this and fund raising and paddling helped me to heal from the loss of such a good friend.

In the course of the three trips that I was involved in, I learned many a valuable lesson. I learned that I could manage for a week with what I carried in my knapsack, and little more. I learned that I could enjoy great vegetarian meals. I learned that it was not necessary (or healthy) to wash my hair every day. I learned that "a rich man is not he who has the most, but rather..it is he who needs the least."

On our trip in 2002, 13 women shared six rolls of toilet paper for one week. We returned with three rolls. I learned that there is another use for bandannas.

The greatest lesson learned, however, is that a few people working towards a common goal can accomplish great things.

The experience of Paddle to a Cure changed my life, and I am forever grateful for the opportunity that was presented to me at a time when I needed it the most.

More thoughts

I just returned from a two day stay with my daughter in Bracebridge. Mandy is my youngest and lives approx 40 minutes away from me in the part of the world that I love the best. Bracebridge was my home for over 20 years, until I moved to Beaverton to be closer to my father who is elderly. Going to Bracebridge is truly, a trip "home."

Mandy and her fiance have just bought a house.... a nice place that is perfect for the two of them. It needs a little work but neither she nor her fiance are afraid of hard work. It is cute to see how they get a charge out of domestic chores... dish washing, cooking, baking, laundry...and...recycling!! Yes!! They are serious about recycling! Halleluia! (And I thought that they were not listening!!)

Mandy recycles. She reuses. She regifts. That is one thing I have not been able to bring myself to do. When I receive a gift, I cannot part with it, because it reminds me of the person who has given. That in itself is why I live with so much clutter. I can not bear to part with things that evoke memories. To solve that problem, I am going to ask for giftless occasions from here on. My walls, closets and cupboards are full. I would rather spend an hour in the company of someone I love than spend a lifetime with a token of their affection.

There is another bright light at the end of the clutter tunnel. My daughter's closets are bare and...(I sure hope that she doesn't read this!)...I think I may have found a home for all of her grandmother's and great grandmother's cups and saucers, china and glassware!

Reduce. Reuse. Recycle. Regift.

Thanks Mandy. You don't know it yet, but you are instrumental in helping my to further simplify my life. Oh how I love my children and their empty houses!